The following quote was posted earlier today -
"No matter how you behave and what you do for people around you -they will love you and treat you according to their needs and their mood."
Following is a comment received on the above post:
Then, what kind of my act should be?
According to our convenience or others convenience?
Actually a practical daily issue
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Yes - it is a practical issue.
When we look around rationally and realistically, there always (or most of the time) seems to be a gap between verbal, textual ideology and practical life.
The above quote or statement is a general belief or concept - a popular maxim - based on realistic observation.
However, how one should behave in the world and people around, is one's personal choice.
We can continue to do good and help people without any expectations whatsoever - Or we can limit ourselves if we chose to do so.
The point is that we should always keep in mind that people are invariably going to treat us - not for what we do but according to their needs or moods. So that we do not get hurt when our expectations are not met.
' Rajan Sachdeva '
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ReplyDeleteThink it's Expectations which are main bone of contention in interpersonal relationships. Quit or forego Expectations, peace is there.
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