Maryada Purushottam Ram
Lord Ram is revered as Maryada Purushottam, the Ideal Man who embodies righteousness and morality - the one who always upheld his moral boundaries, consistently adhered to the codes of conduct, and never, under any circumstance, abandoned the path of Dharma (righteousness) and Maryada (propriety, decency, decorum).
What is Maryada?
Often, Maryada is perceived merely as being linked to the traditions and values (samskaras) of a specific family, community, lineage, or social class.
However, the true essence of Maryada lies in adhering to the principles of Truth and Humanity - remaining steadfast on the path of human values and absolute truth.
While Lord Ram meticulously observed the codes of conduct of family, society, and Desh-dharma (national duty), he simultaneously and completely upheld the codes of conduct of humanity itself.
The Principles of Humanity, according to Ancient Indian holy scriptures**, are:
Compassion, righteousness, self discipline (Tapa), patience, truthfulness, virtuous character, contentment, love, humility, and absolute sincerity - never engaging in deceit or trickery against anyone; never coveting or seizing another's wealth; and remaining content and joyful in one's own honest earnings, without harboring feelings of envy or malice toward others - and so forth.
Celebrating Ram Navami is not merely about singing praises and extolling the virtues of Lord Ram.
The celebration of Ram Navami can be truly meaningful and successful only if we strive to internalize and embody the very human virtues of Lord Ram in our own lives.
** Ancient Indian holy scriptures frequently describe these human virtues.
For instance:
*Ma gridhah kasya sviddhanam
" Rigveda"
(Do not attempt to seize or covet anyone else's wealth.)
*Yallabhase nija karmopatam vittam tena vinodaya chittam
" Adi Shankaracharya "
(Find contentment and joy in your mind with whatever you earn through your own honest labor.)
In the Ramcharitmanas, while describing the nine forms of devotion (Navadha Bhakti), Lord Ram says:
"Chhath dam, sheel, virati bahu karma
(Control over the senses, a humble and virtuous nature, and a spirit of detachment or non-attachment - while actively performing one's duties.)
*Nirat nirantar sajjan dharma*
(Constantly conducting oneself with the virtues of a noble and righteous person.)
*Satvam sam, mohi-may jag dekha; mo tay sant adhik kari lekha*
(Equanimity - perceiving the entire world as a manifestation of the Divine - Viewing all with an equal eye - treating everyone with equality and holding the saints and virtuous souls in even higher esteem than the Divine itself)
"Aathvam Jatha Labha Santosha - Sapnehu Nahi Dakhai Pardosha"
(Contentment with whatever is earned, and not perceiving and looking for the faults of others).
"Navam Saral Sab San Chhal Heena"
(Being simple and honest with everyone, and refraining from deceit or trickery.
"Mam Bharos; Hita Harsha Na Deena"
(Faith in the Supreme and with self-confidence, remaining unswayed, unperturbed by joy or sorrow - maintaining neither excessive elation nor despair in any situation)
And indeed, we can find countless more such examples in the Bhagavad Gita and other Scriptures as well.
" Rajan Sachdeva "









