Monday, June 8, 2026

The Answers we Seek जिन प्रश्नों के उत्तर ढूंढ रहे हैं

The answers we seek...  
       ... Are hidden in the silence that we try to avoid. 

And the miracle we want 
           is inherent in the efforts we are trying to avoid. 

जिन प्रश्नों के उत्तर हम ढूंढ रहे हैं 
         वो उस ख़ामोशी में छुपे हैं जिससे हम बचने की कोशिश करते हैं। 

और जिस चमत्कार की हमें तलाश है,
        वो उस काम में ही निहित है जिससे हम बचने की कोशिश करते हैं। 
                              " राजन सचदेव "

Thursday, June 4, 2026

AI - AI - AI

Today, we are living in the era of AI (Artificial Intelligence).
And many are worried that one day, AI might take control of everything in the world and in our lives.

Since AI is merely the accumulated intelligence gathered from the web, it is devoid of human emotions. Therefore, it may become destructive and disastrous in the future.

Moreover, we rely on AI so much that we hardly use our own brains, which will eventually reduce our brain capacity.

Therefore, instead of a single AI, we should use three AIs.
                       AI + AI + AI
Apni Intelligence* + Artificial Intelligence + Aadhyaatmik* Intelligence.

That is, while using artificial intelligence, we must use our own intelligence, coupled with our human emotional and spiritual intelligence.

Because mere intelligence, without emotion and empathy, is of no use.
                                               " Rajan Sachdeva "

* Apni = Our own intelligence
**Aadhyaatmik = Emotional, Spiritual

Saturday, May 30, 2026

Busy vs Lazy

Everything is easy when we're busy
Nothing is easy when we're lazy.

When we're busy, we find ways and solutions.
When we're lazy, we find excuses. 

The difference is not in the work itself 
It is in the mindset. 
                             "Rajan Sachdeva"

व्यस्त रहें

         व्यस्त रहना अच्छा है 

जब हम काम में व्यस्त होते हैं, तो हर काम आसान लगता है।
और जब आलसी हो जाते हैं, तो हर काम मुश्किल लगता है। 

जब व्यस्त होते हैं, तो हम रास्ते और समाधान ढूँढ़ लेते हैं।
जब आलसी होते हैं, तो बहाने ढूँढ़ते हैं।

फ़र्क काम में नहीं होता, 
         बल्कि हमारी सोच में होता है। 
                      " राजन सचदेव " 

Thursday, May 28, 2026

Direct Your Expectations Toward Yourself

Direct your hopes and expectations only toward yourself. 
Expect more from yourself than from others. 

Instead of placing your expectations on others, place your trust in yourself.
Hold yourself to higher standards and expectations.

Expectations from others often lead to disappointment, anger, heartbreak, and resentment because people may not respond the way we want them to. 
They may not behave in ways that align with our hopes and expectations. 

But expectations from oneself can become a source of growth and transformation. 
They can inspire us to work harder, to improve ourselves, and to rise above our current circumstances and limitations.

When we shift our focus from expecting from others to improving ourselves, life begins to feel more meaningful and peaceful.  
                        " Rajan Sachdeva " 

आशाएं - अपेक्षाएं केवल स्वयं से ही रखें

आशाएं और अपेक्षाएं केवल स्वयं से ही रखें। 
दूसरों से अपेक्षा रखने की बजाय, स्वयं पर भरोसा रखें - अपने आप से ही ज़्यादा उम्मीदें एवं अपेक्षाएं रखें। 

दूसरों से अपेक्षाएं अक्सर निराशा, क्रोध और ग्लानि का कारण बन जाती हैं, 
क्योंकि हो सकता है कि लोग हमारी आशा के अनुरुप बर्ताव न करें और वैसा जवाब न दें जैसा हम उनसे चाहते हैं। 

लेकिन स्वयं से की गई अपेक्षाएं विकास और बदलाव का साधन बन सकती हैं।
ये हमें और ज़्यादा मेहनत करने, स्वयं को बेहतर बनाने और अपनी वर्तमान स्थिति एवं सीमाओं से ऊपर उठने के लिए प्रेरित कर सकती हैं। 

जब हम अपना ध्यान दूसरों से अपेक्षा रखने की बजाए स्वयं को बेहतर बनाने पर केंद्रित करने लगते हैं तो हमारा जीवन अधिक अर्थपूर्ण और शांतमय होने लगता है।  
                                          " राजन सचदेव " 

Wednesday, May 27, 2026

I am the Silence


Please click on the link and enjoy this beautiful Video 
I am the Silence 
(Vedanta philosophy)

 

Sunday, April 12, 2026

कबीर एह तन जाएगा Body is destined to perish

कबीर एह  तन जाएगा सकहु ता लेहु बहोरि 
नागे पाओं ते गए जिन के लाख करोरि 

हाड़ जले ज्यों लाकड़ी - केस जले ज्यों घास 
एह  तन जलता देख के भयो कबीर उदास 

जैसे जल ते बुदबुदा उपजै बिनसै नीत 
जग रचना तैसे रची कहु नानक सुन मीत 

ज्यों सपना और पेखना तैसे जग को जान 
इन में साचो कुछ नहीं नानक बिन भगवान 

राम गयो रावण गयो जा का बहु परिवार 
कहु नानक थिर कछु नहीं सुपने ज्यों संसार 

सूरज किरण मिले जल का जल हुआ राम 
जोती जोत रली  सम्पूर्ण थीआ काम 
         ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
                    Roman script 

Kabeer eh tan jayega sakahu ta lehu bahori 
Naange paon tay gaye jin kay laakh karori 

Haad jalay jyon laakdi - kes jalay jyon ghaas 
Eh tan jaltaa dekh kay bhayo Kabeer udaas 

Jaisay jal te budbuda upjai binasai neet 
Jag rachna taisay rachi kahu Nanak sun meet 

Jyon sapana aur pekhana taisay jag ko jaan 
In mein saacho kuchh nahin Nanak bin bhagavaan 

Raam gayo Raavan gayo ja ka bahu parivaar 
Kahu Nanak thir kachhu nahin supanay jyon sansaar 

Sooraj Kiran mile jal ka jal hua Raam 
Joti Jot rali Sampoorn theea kaam
          ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
                 
                 English translation:

Kabir says: This body is destined to perish;  Do you think you can seize it and hold on to it forever? 
Even those who possessed millions and billions ultimately departed barefoot (empty-handed).
               ~~~~~       ~~~~~       ~~~~~       ~~~~~

The bones burn like firewood; the hair burns like grass. 
How sad it is to see the body consumed by flames, says Kabeer. 
               ~~~~~       ~~~~~       ~~~~~       ~~~~~
Just as a bubble rises from the water and bursts, appearing and vanishing ceaselessly,
So, too, is the fabric of this world woven—listen, my friend, says Nanak.
               ~~~~~       ~~~~~       ~~~~~       ~~~~~
Just as a dream is merely a fleeting vision, so should you regard this world to be;
There is nothing truly real within it, O Nanak, except for the Lord God.
               ~~~~~       ~~~~~       ~~~~~       ~~~~~
Lord Rama departed, and Ravana departed—he who commanded a vast retinue;
Nanak says: Nothing here is permanent; this world is transient, like a dream.
               ~~~~~       ~~~~~       ~~~~~       ~~~~~
Just as a sunbeam merges back into the sun, and water returns to water,
So, too, does the individual light merge into the Supreme Light—and thus is the journey of life fulfilled.               
                    ~~~~~       ~~~~~       ~~~~~       ~~~~~

Thursday, April 2, 2026

Old man and a Cafe

              He ordered the Cheapest Coffee Every Day and Sat for Three Hours 

I run a small café on the corner of Maple and Third. 
It’s not fancy. Just a few wooden tables, warm lighting, and the kind of place where regulars feel like family.
That’s why I noticed him the first day he walked in.
He was older — maybe late seventies. 
His coat was worn at the sleeves, his shoes scuffed. 
He walked slowly but with dignity.
He ordered the cheapest thing on the menu: a small black coffee.
Then he sat at the table near the window.
For three hours.

He didn’t scroll on a phone. Didn’t read a book. 
He just sat there, occasionally watching people pass by outside.

The second day, he came again. 
Same coffee. 
Same table.
Same three hours.
By the end of the week, some customers began whispering.
“He’s taking up space.”
“If he’s only buying coffee, he shouldn’t sit that long.”
“Is he homeless?”

But something about him didn’t feel intrusive. 
He always said thank you. Always cleaned his table before leaving. 
Always left a few coins as a tip — even when I could tell that coffee was probably stretching his budget.
So I let him stay.

One afternoon, when I brought his coffee, I added an extra slice of bread.
He looked up at me.
“I didn’t order this,” he said gently. 
“It’s on the house,” I replied. 
He hesitated — then nodded. “Thank you.”

The next week, I added a small bowl of soup. 
Then sometimes dessert. 
He never asked for anything more than that coffee. 
He never complained. 
He just sat quietly, like the café was the only place he felt safe.

Over time, I learned his name was Walter. 
His wife had passed two years earlier.
“I don’t like the house when it’s quiet,”
 He once told me. “Here, there’s life.”

That sentence stayed with me. 
He wasn’t coming for food. 
He was coming for noise. For warmth. For the feeling of not being alone.

Then one day, he didn’t show up. 
I told myself maybe he was sick.
The next day, still nothing. 
A week passed. 
Then two. 
I caught myself glancing at the door every afternoon at exactly 2:15 p.m. — the time he always walked in.

A month later, a woman about my age entered the café. 
She looked around like she was searching for something. 
“Are you the owner?” she asked.
I nodded. 
“My father used to come here. Walter.” 
My stomach dropped.
“He hasn’t been in for a while,” I said quietly.

She smiled sadly.
“He passed away last month.”
The words hit harder than I expected.
“I’m so sorry,” I said. 
“He talked about this place constantly,” she continued. “He called it his ‘second living room.’”

She reached into her bag and pulled out an envelope. 
“He left this for you.”
My hands trembled slightly as I opened it.
Inside was a handwritten letter.  
It read: 
To the kind café owner, 
You may not realize this, but you gave me more than coffee. After my wife died, the days became very long. I didn’t want to burden my daughter. I didn’t want her to see how lonely I was.
Your café gave me something to wake up for. The extra bread, the soup — I knew it wasn’t random. You saw me. At my age, that matters more than anything. 
Thank you for letting an old man take up space. 
— Walter

There was also a small check. 
Not a huge amount, but more than he had ever spent in my café. 
“For the kindness fund,” his daughter said softly.
 “He wanted you to use it to help someone else who might need a place to sit.”
I had to turn away for a moment to steady myself. 

After she left, I walked to the window table — his table. 
The chair was empty.
But it didn’t feel empty.
The next week, I put up a small sign near that window:
“If you need a warm place to sit, you’re welcome here.” 
No minimum purchase required. 
Since then, a few people have taken that seat.
A college student studying between jobs.
A widow who brings knitting.
A man who just needed quiet.
And every time I bring them coffee — sometimes with a little extra bread — I think of Walter.

He came in every day and ordered the cheapest thing on the menu. 
Some people thought he was taking up space. 
But he taught me something simple and powerful: 
Sometimes the most valuable thing you can give someone isn’t food. 
It’s permission to not feel alone.
And sometimes, the quietest customers leave the loudest impact.
                              " From an unknown source "

Friday, March 27, 2026

Education is Admirable शिक्षा प्रशंसनीय है

Education is an admirable thing, 
  But it is well to remember from time to time - 
       That nothing that is worth knowing can be taught. 
                                   ~  Oscar Wilde   ~

शिक्षा - अर्थात पढ़ना और पढ़ाना एक प्रशंसनीय कृत्य है 
      लेकिन समय-समय पर यह भी याद रखना चाहिए - 
             कि जानने लायक कोई भी चीज़ कभी सिखाई नहीं जा सकती। 
                               ~ ऑस्कर वाइल्ड ~

The Answers we Seek जिन प्रश्नों के उत्तर ढूंढ रहे हैं

The answers we seek...          ... Are hidden in the silence that we try to avoid.  And the miracle we want             is inherent in the ...