Everyone's life is different.
Since everyone has diverse, distinct problems - the solutions would also be different.
The same solution may not work for everyone.
Everyone does not get the same opportunities as some others do.
Moreover, everyone does not have the same resources - therefore, people have to work their problems according to their capabilities - in their own way.
We tend to judge people based on what they have accomplished by comparing them with other successful people.
However, we fail to see that they may not have the desired or required resources that others might have at their disposal.
The perfection of life is not in comparing with others but in testing oneself.
Therefore, while judging people, we must keep in mind their capabilities and the resources available to them.
It's possible that, given the same resources and power, they might even do better than the people they are being compared with.
' Rajan Sachdeva '
There are 4Cs which are our regular life companion. C(compare) C(criticise) C(cry) C(complain) It's relativity which is inherently there as a matter of human nature. Whereas, it need to be one C(compliment) which if professed n practised can prove to be trigger for 4Cs with -ve character may get slowly n gradually replaced/ reduced.
ReplyDeleteThe universe of diversity is one Being only ,except That nothing is .Being alone was ,Being alone is even after the creation .The variety is not really there ,as causative factors of this variety are also constituted of the substance of this being alone .That which causes difference of one thing from another is also that Being only ,manifested in some other form .So how can there be difference ? If the differentiating factor itself is a part of that which is differentiated, then thete is no such thing as differentiation .we have the world which is only notional .It is in the mind on account of perception .Indivisuality is an illusion .Physically substantially basically thay are identical. Basic essence is to be perceived .
ReplyDeleteThank you for your kind input.
DeleteWhat you said is absolutely right - in theory.
But we can not live by the theory alone. So, my approach is a practical one.
Scientifically also, we know that everything we see is basically the atoms bound together in different arrangements. But for all practical purposes, we have to see and react to them as we perceive them in the physical world. We see and use a table as a table and a chair as a chair. A stove is a stove, and a computer is a computer. We need to see the difference even though they all are simply atoms.
Yes - One Being is in everyone - all are the manifestation of One Being... but yet - we must differentiate between mother, sister, and a daughter - between father, brother, husband, and son. We must treat them equally, but yet we have to give them their due place and regard.
The theory is for understanding the basics.
This theory has been there for centuries, but the world still has not become one. We need to recognize the differences - accept them, and try to resolve the issues in a practical way.
As long as we are living in this physical world, we need to be practical.
I respect your views, but this is how I see and feel.
Do continue to share your views, please.
We are all here to learn from each other. Thanks.
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DeleteExcellent thought!!
ReplyDelete"The perfection of life is not in comparing with others but in testing oneself." <- love this!
ReplyDeleteAgree with you completely. !!
ReplyDeleteCompletely agree
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