Spirituality should make us humble & Non-judgmental

Spirituality - Gyan, Satsang, Seva, Bhakti, Yoga, Meditation, etc. are supposed to make us humble, non-judgmental, and free of jealousy and envy. 

However, the research shows that those who are more involved in these things, usually end up being more proud and egotistic. They often become more judgemental, discriminative, and jealous of others.

Why is that? 

Either their ways are wrong, or they might be doing all these things for some other reasons. 

Perhaps as a pass-time thing, or to fit in a society, a certain community, or a social circle - or just to gain some temporary worldly benefits and privileges. 

Spirituality means - regarding or concerning the Spirit. 

The Sanskrit or Hindi word for spirituality is Adhyaatm - meaning that which pertains to Aatma. 

If it stays in the superficial level of mind and intellect, then it can not be regarded as Adhyaatm - as real spirituality. 

Once, after understanding and grasping through the mind and intellect, it enters the spirit - the subconscious, only then spirituality and its traits - such as humility and acceptance - nonjudgment and nondiscrimination, etc. can become a natural part of life.  

                                                     ' Rajan Sachdeva '