If you want to Criticize

If you want to say whatever you want to say to others, 
if you like to criticize others, 
then you must have the patience to listen to other's harsh criticism towards yourself as well.  

Usually, we preach others to take criticism positively - with an open mind. 
But when it comes to ourselves, we feel and react differently. 
Shouldn't it be the same way in both situations?
If we can't handle any criticism towards us, then we should not criticize others either.        
                               ' Rajan Sachdeva '