My Guru, My inspiration, My motivation
Ustad Vilayat Khan Sahib (Abba)
(August 28,1928 to March 13, 2004)
Thinking of him today, on this auspicious day of Guru-Purnima, along with many other fond memories of him, I remembered, one particular incidence. Just a couple of months before he left this mortal world in 2004, I went to visit him in his Princeton, New Jersey home. He was little sick and weak but in high spirit. After dinner, three of us, Abba, Amma and me, were sitting in the living room, talking and waiting for Hidayat babu, who was at some concert and was going to be back quite late. Abba talked about some old times, and like always, told some fantastic stories. We talked till past midnight when Amma said it’s too late and he should go to sleep. I helped Amma to clear the table and took empty tea cups and plates to the kitchen. When we came back from the kitchen, we saw Abba on the stair case, holding the railing and stepping up slowly, one step at a time. Amma asked loudly, “what are you doing? Why are you going upstairs”? I was surprised too since his bed room was on the main floor of the house, not upstairs.
Softly and quite lovingly, he said I am going to see if Rajan’s room is alright. “Dekhoon uske kamray me kambal, pillow vagaira sub theek to hai?”
Amma said I have made the room, changed the sheets myself. Blanket pillow and everything is fine, you don’t need to check it.
I was astonished and quickly went up the stairs, held his hand and brought him back downstairs saying “Abba! You don’t need to do this for me.”
In this special Indian ‘Guru-Shishya Paramparaa’ (Teacher- disciple relationship), disciples are supposed to respect, serve and take care of the guru for rest of their lives but Guru, other than teaching is not expected to do anything else. His teaching is much more valuable than a student can ever think of.
Naturally, I became quite emotional at his gesture of such love for me, who is not even worthy of being called his disciple; since, because of my circumstances, the actual time of my learning under him was very short.
I often remember this incidence with great reverence, along with many other fond memories of the times I spent with this legendary, one of the greatest personalities of our times.
Great people are great in every way.
‘Rajan Sachdeva’
Note: The legendary Ustad Vilayat Khan (August 28, 1928 to March 13. 2004) was the greatest and most revered Sitar Nawaaz (Sitarist) and the recipient of "Aftab-e-Sitar" - the highest musical award given by the President of India.
He was lovingly called ‘Abba’ by all his students and disciples.
He was lovingly called ‘Abba’ by all his students and disciples.
Thanks Rajan for sharing this. I thank you once again for opportunity to have him at my home for few days.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
ReplyDeleteGreat people are great in every way indeed.
ReplyDeleteThanks for such inspiring message. You really have a way about clarifying your messages to perfection. My sincerest thanks and respect to you for being my Guru. I feel blessed to have you in my life. Saadar Pranaam
ReplyDeleteSujit
My pranams to you too guruji .
ReplyDeleteRam
Thanks for sharing such an intimate experience 🙏🙏
ReplyDeleteSuch a pious relationship and difficult to put in words
ReplyDeleteThe story you shared reminded me of my first time traveling with him from Delhi to dehradun and how he kept feeding me again and again. Thank God my teacher Ustad Shujaat Kahn had already warned me of this so I got saved by eating limited each time. Great people have style of their own. Thank you Rajan bhai for these stories and sharing with us. Love it!
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ReplyDeleteSuch a wonderful story. Thank you for sharing. Though your time with him was short, his legacy lives on through you and your memories of him.
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