If you really want to help someone

No matter how much we love someone, we cannot fight their battles.

All we can do is - show them Light. 

We can be patient and loving, offer a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen when they need it most. 

Because our love can inspire more change than giving them advice. 

There will be times when an intervention is necessary; or moments when it is all right to give advice and share the ideas that can help others. 

But even in those moments, it is the light & love that we share, will assist them to rise above the challenges, not our words. 

Scolding, getting angry or putting them down in front of others might have adverse effect and push them further away from you as well as their own challenges. 

Be kind and considerate. 

If you really want to help someone – family, friends or loved ones, or members of your community or organization –

Show them the Light - Show them the path with love and patience - to help them rise above their challenges.

                                                         'Rajan Sachdeva'