Sunday, February 14, 2021

We are told to be friends with good people

Usually, we are told that we should find good people -
be friends with them - spend your time with them
and ignore the bad ones - leave them and be happy.

Wisdom says -
Find good in everyone and ignore the bad in them.

If you try to find perfect people, then you will always be alone.
Because - No one is perfect.

10 comments:

  1. Dear Rajan ji,

    what if one doesn't have the strength to overlook the negativity in those people & they become so overbearing that they start harming you (mentally)? In that case doesn't it make sense to neglect them & keep a distance?

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    1. Yes... Either one should learn to become strong enough not to take any negative effect or influence from such people - otherwise keeping distance would be the right thing to do.

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    2. Thank you Rajan Ji for your feedback. Please keep posting & inspiring ....

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  2. To accept bad dosent mean lettingthem harm u , it means to ignore them so as to make them understand that their bad deeds are not acceptable 🙏🙏

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  3. To accept bad dosent mean lettingthem harm u , it means to ignore them so as to make them understand that their bad deeds are not acceptable 🙏🙏

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  4. Every one has some positive things in them that we should admire...

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  5. Thanks for the explanation to one of the questions above Rajanjee. Because in life you do encounter situations where one does not have the strength to ignore the negativity emanating from some people.

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