Tuesday, June 25, 2019

When the motor is running - it gets heated

While the engine is running, and the car is moving, then it's natural for the silencer to get hot. 
However, the engine remains cold when the car is parked in the garage and not running. 
If the cow that gives milk kicks, we stay quiet. 
We ignore the harsh words and sarcasm of the clients who provide monetary benefits to us. 
Similarly, If we take the harsh or bitter words from the father who works hard and runs the household with his earnings - from the Gurus and teachers from whom we got wisdom and are still getting it - the relatives and friends who guide us to move in the right direction - then we can succeed in life much faster. 
Although it is natural for everyone to lose temper sometimes, however, that does not mean that it's OK for the parents or elders to get angry all the time - or them being angry all the time is justified in any way.
It simply means that it will help us in the long run - that we should try to understand their timely or untimely rage; their anger calmly, and keep moving forward with their help. 
We must not lose regard for parents and elders and create distance and fractures in the relationships.
                         ' Rajan Sachdeva '

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हज़ारों ख़ामियां मुझ में हैं - मुझको माफ़ कीजिए

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