Thinking of him today, on his birthday, along with many
others, I remembered, one particular incidence. Just a couple of months before
he left this mortal world in 2004, I went to visit him in his Princeton, New
Jersey home. He was little sick and weak but in high spirit. After dinner,
three of us, Abba, Amma and me, were sitting in the living room, talking and
waiting for Hidayat bhai, who was at some concert and was going to be back quite
late. Abba talked about some old times,
and like always, told some fantastic stories. We talked till past midnight when
Amma said it’s too late and he should go to sleep. I helped Amma to clear the table
and took empty tea cups and plates to the kitchen. When we came back from the
kitchen, we saw Abba on the stair case, holding the railing and stepping up slowly,
one step at a time. Amma asked loudly, “what are you doing? Why are you going
upstairs”? I was surprised too since his bed room was on the main floor of the
house, not upstairs.
Softly and quite lovingly, he said I am going to see if
Rajan’s room is alright. “Dekhoon uske kamre me kambal, pillow vagaira sub
theek to hai?”
She said I have made the room, changed the sheets myself. Blanket
pillow and everything is fine, you don’t need to check it.
I was astonished and quickly went up the stairs, held his
hand and brought him back downstairs saying “Abba! You don’t need to do this
for me.”
In this special Indian ‘Guru-Shishya Paramparaa’ (Teacher-
disciple relationship), disciples are supposed to respect, serve and take care
of the guru for rest of their lives but Guru, other than teaching is not
expected to do anything else.
Naturally, I became quite emotional at his gesture of such
love for me, who is not even worthy of being called his disciple; since, because
of my circumstances, the actual time of my learning under him was very short,
and of course, lack of enough practice too.
I often remember this incidence with great reverence, along
with many other fond memories of the times I spent with this legendary, one of
the greatest personalities of our times.
Great
people are great in every way.
‘Rajan Sachdeva’
Note: The legendary Ustad Vilayat Khan (August 28, 1928 to
March 13. 2004) was the greatest and most revered Sitar Nawaaz (Sitarist). He
was lovingly called ‘Abba’ by all his students and disciples.
Very inspiring - thank you for sharing this.
ReplyDeleteVery inspiring - thank you for sharing this.
ReplyDeleteWao gr8 unforgettable memories
ReplyDeleteBaldev Dhanoa
Thank you for sharing this very emotional and inspirational incident.
ReplyDeletePrem
Thanks for Reminding Great Vilayat Khan Sahib !!
ReplyDeleteThanks for introducing me to him !!
Regards
Kumar