And never let self-respect slip away.
However, it's important to understand the distinction between arrogance and self-respect, because the line that separates the two is often fine and elusive.
Arrogance keeps a person from ever rising higher.
It never lets one reach true heights.
One who is constantly preoccupied with himself - who always considers himself right and superior to others - ultimately closes the doors of his own growth and progress. His vision narrows, and he loses the possibility of true elevation.
On the other hand, self-respect never lets a person fall — because it preserves the balance between humility and dignity. It safeguards dignity while maintaining humility - preserving the inner balance that sustains integrity.
However, sometimes the distinction between arrogance and self-respect can be so subtle that it is difficult to recognize.
At times, we believe we are protecting our self-respect, while in reality, we are caught in arrogance.
And at other times, in the process of renouncing arrogance, we may also lose our self-respect — and inner strength.
Therefore, constant vigilance is required — to carefully discern the subtle difference between the two, and to choose wisely.
Otherwise, we may either lose our self-respect while trying to abandon pride, or mistake arrogance for self-respect and unknowingly set foot on the path of downfall.
Stay away from arrogance, but always protect your self-respect.
One who is constantly preoccupied with himself - who always considers himself right and superior to others - ultimately closes the doors of his own growth and progress. His vision narrows, and he loses the possibility of true elevation.
On the other hand, self-respect never lets a person fall — because it preserves the balance between humility and dignity. It safeguards dignity while maintaining humility - preserving the inner balance that sustains integrity.
However, sometimes the distinction between arrogance and self-respect can be so subtle that it is difficult to recognize.
At times, we believe we are protecting our self-respect, while in reality, we are caught in arrogance.
And at other times, in the process of renouncing arrogance, we may also lose our self-respect — and inner strength.
Therefore, constant vigilance is required — to carefully discern the subtle difference between the two, and to choose wisely.
Otherwise, we may either lose our self-respect while trying to abandon pride, or mistake arrogance for self-respect and unknowingly set foot on the path of downfall.
Stay away from arrogance, but always protect your self-respect.
Arrogance never lets you rise.
Self-respect never lets you fall.
The line between the two is subtle —
So choose with care
For in that balance lies true elevation and the dignity of life.
Self-respect never lets you fall.
The line between the two is subtle —
So choose with care
For in that balance lies true elevation and the dignity of life.
" Rajan Sachdeva "
That’s true, I like this topic
ReplyDeleteIt’s a necessary to understand for a seeker that Self-respect is an inner harmony — the quiet recognition of one’s worth without the need to diminish others. It creates dignity, balance, and openness, allowing a person to stand firm yet humble.
ReplyDeleteArrogance, on the other hand, is an outward noise — an inflated sense of worth that depends on comparison, often built on insecurity. It seeks validation by placing oneself above others, creating distance rather than connection.
In essence: self-respect uplifts both self and others, arrogance diminishes both.
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DeleteLike it but can you elaborate more how to differentiate between Those two situations
ReplyDeleteIn short:
DeleteThat which stays within a person — quietly hidden in the heart with humility — yet continues to inspire steadfastness on the principles of truth, never allowing those principles to be compromised, and guarding against surrendering to falsehood or falling low — that is self-respect (Svabhiman).
That which spills outward — constantly criticizing others out of rivalry and envy, and striving to dominate them — that is arrogance (Abhiman).