Thursday, February 14, 2019

Care vs Control

When we care for people, 
we usually want to control them as well - there is a subtle control hidden behind any apparent care. 
However, there is a difference between caring and controlling. 
Care is an expression of love while control is an expression of ego.
Care unites - Control separates
Care connects - Control cuts
Care heals - Control hurts 
Too much control creates negativity and turns people away or makes them rebellious. 
So, keep caring for people but don't try to control them, 
Because no one likes to be controlled.

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